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Questions and Answers: Menstrual Cycle and Pregnancy 

Pregnancy - Frequently Asked Questions

Took a pregnancy test the day before my period was due. I'm late now. Could the test have been accurate?
Does the menstrual cycle continue during pregnancy?
I haven't had a period since I had a baby. Is this normal?
My girlfriend's period was only 1 day. Could she be pregnant?
Having unprotected sex, spotting continually. Why?
I had sex after my period ended and I'm ovulating. Could I get pregnant?
Wife is having late periods, could she be pregnant again?
My periods are irregular; I missed this month. Pregnancy tests negative. Why?
I gave birth a year ago and I nurse, but I haven't had a period. Why?
My period came 3 days early and I have weird symptoms. Am I pregnant?
I've gone through some lifestyle changes, and my period is irregular. Why?
I'm taking antibiotics and I'm stressed and on the pill. Could I still be pregnant?

Can you still be pregnant if you get your period?
I have pregnancy symptoms, but a negative result. Did I test too early?
When do you start and stop ovulation, and how likely is pregnancy?
I messed around with my boyfriend; my period is irregular. Am I pregnant?
I've had both negative and positive pregnancy tests. Is this normal?
I have a cyst. I was spotting. Could I be pregnant?
I'm late and I've been feeling sick. Could I be pregnant?
I had unprotected sex, but got my period a couple days later. Should I get ECP?
I'm very regular usually, but I'm late now, with a negative test. Is that right?
Could having sex cause my period to be late? Am I pregnant?
I'm two months late with a negative test. Could I be pregnant?
I had sore breasts before a 5 day period. Could I be pregnant?
I took the ECP and bled for 3 days, but no period since then. Could I be pregnant?
If I am spotting a week before my period, could that mean I'm pregnant?
I had 3 periods last month and now I missed one. Could I be pregnant?
I was on Depo for 4 years. When will I have a normal cycle?
My boyfriend and I were making out; I took ECP. Could I still get pregnant?
I had a baby 7 months ago and I breast feed. When will I get a period?
Will taking the Pill for 4 days cause my cycle to be irregular?
What is endometriosis? Could I have it?
Is it normal for me to have my period the last week of my pills?
Do hormones affect a baby's due date? Did she have a period after conception?
Pills didn't regulate my cycle, so I stopped. Haven't gotten my period yet. Why?
I gave birth by Caesarian. When will my period return?
My boyfriend and I haven't had sex, but I'm late. Could I be pregnant?
Is it possible to get pregnant from nearby semen?
I was taking Clomid for 5 months. What else can I do to help ovulation?
I went off birth control, had periods, and had unprotected sex. Am I pregnant?
I'm not sure if I had sex, but my period is late. Could I be pregnant?
Can I get pregnant if I have a 24-day cycle?
I've been done with my period for a week, but I'm spotting. Could I be pregnant?
I'm 3 days late, did I take the pregnancy test too soon?
My boyfriend ejaculated near me in a pool. Could I be pregnant?
I missed a period, but I've never had sex with a man. What's wrong?
Do I have a greater chance of becoming pregnant before or after my period?




QUESTION: My period is due 3/21/05, I took a pregnancy test 3/20/05 and it was negative. I am now 2 days late(3/23/05). No pregnancy symptoms. Can I still be pregnant? (March 29, 2005)

ANSWER:
A home pregnancy test can be taken the first day of your missed period, unless the instructions on the pregnancy test kit say otherwise. If you took the test before the first day of what should have been your period, it is possible that the results may have been affected. If you think it is possible that you are pregnant it is recommended that you repeat the pregnancy test or schedule an appointment with your clinician to have a pregnancy test performed.



QUESTION: I'd like to know if menstrual cycle still continues during pregnancy? I've recently had unprotected sex with my boyfriend (it was like 4 weeks ago). Now my period has delayed for around 1 week already. However, I haven't shown any early symptoms experienced in pregnancy. I'd just like to know how many days after having unprotected sex a possible pregnancy will show its signs? (March 24, 2005)

ANSWER:
A woman may experience spotting during pregnancy, however, the menstrual cycle is interrupted in pregnant women. Women who are pregnant may experience symptoms such as nausea, breast tenderness and swelling, increased urination, tiredness, headaches, mood swings, and other symptoms; when these symptoms begin varies from woman to woman. If you think you might be pregnant, it is recommended that you visit clinician for a pregnancy test.



QUESTION: I had a baby 5 months ago and had a tubal ligation before leaving the hspital. I had a period for 5 days after birth but have not had one since. is this normal? (March 24, 2005)

ANSWER:
Tubal litigation is considered a permanent birth control method. This procedure is often referred to as "tube tying" because the tubes between the ovaries and uterus are closed off. When this is done, a man's sperm cannot reach a woman's egg to fertilize it. Because the tubes are closed off the egg will be reabsorbed. The woman still gets a menstrual period and still releases an egg each month.

Tubal litigation is about 99% effective, which means there still is a slight chance that a woman can conceive after having the procedure done. However, having a baby can alter a woman's menstrual cycle; after having a baby, it is not uncommon for a woman’s menstrual cycle to change. It varies between women that it is impossible to say whether a woman will return to her old pattern after having a baby.

Breastfeeding plays a big role in determining your body’s menstrual cycle after birth. Whether or not you are breastfeeding, and how much you're breastfeeding (if you are) is the biggest factor in determining how soon your body will resume its menstrual cycle.

Breastfeeding delays the return of your periods. If you're breastfeeding exclusively, day and night, it can take up to a year before your period returns. If you are breastfeeding you may find that you don't have any periods until you are down to two or three feeds daily. If you are formula-feeding your baby, you might start menstruating again as soon as a month after delivering your baby, or it could take two to three months.

If you are concerned that you have not had a period, or if you have any other questions concerned the tubal litigation procedure, it is recommended that you speak with your clinician.



QUESTION: My Girlfriend and I are sexually active. She said she started her period but it only lasted one day. Could she be pregnant? (March 18, 2005)

ANSWER:
There is no way to know if your girlfriend is pregnant unless she takes a pregnancy test. For more information on how pregnancy occurs and how to prevent pregnancy, please visit our Pregnancy FAQ.



QUESTION: i had the last day of my period on february 19, and had unprotected sex during that day. i had spotting then. after a week, i have continually experienced spotting and had unprotected sex again [february 26] i still have spotting until now [march 6]. what does this mean? last day of menstrual period; unprotected sex--1 week of continuous spotting--unprotected sex--2nd week of continuous spotting. i am afraid i might be pregnant. i am still waiting for my next period as this comes regularly on the 19th to 24th of the month. (March 10, 2005)

ANSWER:
Spotting, or bleeding between periods, can be caused by a number of factors. If you are concerned about spotting, or concerned that you might be pregnant, it is recommended that you see a clinician.

It is important to remember that having unprotected sex can put you at an increased risk for becoming pregnant or contracting a sexually transmitted infection. To reduce your risk of pregnancy and infection, it is recommeded that you use a barrier method (such as a condom) each and every time you participate in sexual behaviors. If you are trying to avoid pregnancy, it is recommened that you speak with your clinician about other birth control methods as well.



QUESTION: what if your period went off on a thursday but had sex on a saturday and you bled a little but it wasn't a period. now it looks like i'm ovulating. my discharge ia mixed with a light brown. can i get pregnant? (February 21, 2005)

ANSWER:
For information about pregnancy and how it occurs, please visit our Pregnancy FAQ.



QUESTION: My wife had a late period last month, it should start at Jan 5 (usually 28~ 30days) but it didn't. So we took an e.p.t test on Jan 17 and it's negative. On Jan. 18 her period came (regually bleeding from heavy to stop about 5~6 days). Since we have two kids so my wife said it's the regulary period not implantation bleeding.

This month her period already 2 days late. Is there any chance that she could be pregnant again? (February 18, 2005)

ANSWER: If your partner is concerned about the irregularity of her period, or is concerned that she might be pregnant, it is recommended that she speak with her clinician. For more information on pregnancy, please visit our Pregnancy FAQ.



QUESTION: My periods are not regular but they usually always come around the same time. I have never went a month with out having one. I have had unprotected sex with my husband, and I have not had a period this month. I have taken three preg tests all were negative. Do you think all three tests could be wrong?? I waited days in between the tests.. Could I still be preg?? (February 1, 2005)

ANSWER:
An Early Pregnancy Test (EPT) or Home Pregnancy Test (HPT) can detect HCG hormone levels in your urine as early as the day your period should have started. HCG is a hormone that is produced by pregnant women. EPT/HPT can be used on the day of your missed period as well as any day after that, so if you used the EPT/HPT before your period should have started, the results may not be accurate.


There is always a chance that you may be pregnant if you didn't use protection (like a condom and/or an oral contraceptive).

Keep in mind that there are other reasons besides pregnancy that could cause your period to be late; exercise, stress, weight loss or gain, and/or changes in your diet could all be reasons that your period might be late.

If you are still concerned about being pregnant, you may want to repeat the home pregnancy test (if you took it too soon) or see your clinician to confirm or disprove the possibility of pregnancy.



QUESTION: I gave birth one year ago and I am nursing. My mensrual cycle has not returned even though I only nurse my son once in the morning and once in the evening. When I was nursing my older daughter I got my period back the minute I started to supplement. Should I be concerned? (January 27, 2005)

ANSWER: It is important to remember that each pregnancy is different; what was the norm with your first child may be different from the norm with your second child. Breastfeeding frequency and total amount of time spent breastfeeding per 24 hours are the strongest factors leading to the return of fertility: a mother is more likely to see the return of fertility if baby's nursing frequency and/or duration is reduced, particularly if the change is abrupt. A return to fertility is not necessarily determined by the presence of a period. For some mothers, the first menstruation is preceded by ovulation - which means that becoming pregnant before the return of your period is a possibility. If you are concerned about absence of your period, it is recommended that you speak with your clinician.



QUESTION: I am feeling lightheaded and nausea my period which is normally on time came three days earlier with no cramps but its normal period bleeding I am tired could I be pregnant or are these just symptoms of periods (January 25, 2005)

ANSWER: Symptoms of pregnancy vary from woman to woman; if you are concerned that you might be pregnancy, it is recommended that you take a pregnancy test. To see more pregnancy-related questions, please visit our Pregnancy FAQ.



QUESTION: For the last few weeks, I have been spotting a drop or 2 of brown blood. My period is not always normal, but it usually comes every 5-6 weeks. My last period was near the end of November, and although me and my boyfriend have had sex about 5 times since then, we always used protection correctly and the condom never broke. I do not feel any symptoms of pregnancy, and there has been no pain at all since I started spotting. I am actively involved in sports and spend several hours a week participating in them. In the past month and a half, I have lost a few pounds despite that fact that I had been eating more. My sleeping patterns changed dramatically over the college break and I went from about 9 hours of sleep a night to 6 or 7. Could any of these things be the reason for my spotting? Are my hormones a little out of whack, or are there any other possibly reasons? Thanks! (January 24, 2005)

ANSWER:
Having an irregular period could be related to stress, hormonal imbalances, excessive exercise and/or weight loss, and sleep and nutrition deficiencies, among other potential factors. All of these factors can influence a woman's reproductive cycle. A change in a period may also be an indicator of pregnancy.

If you are concerned about the changes in your period, it is recommended you see your clinician.



QUESTION: I am a very responsible birth control pill taker, and I've only had sex with my boyfriend once since my last period(and because of an interuption, he never ejaculated). I've been taking antibiotics for the last 6 days for bronchitis and my period is late. I also started a new job this week and have been stressed about that, and about being sick. Could these factors affect my period? If my boyfriend never came, could I still be pregnant even though I am on the pill? (January 11, 2005)

ANSWER:
There are many factors which can cause a woman's period to be late or even completely absent: stress, changes in diet or exercise habits, illness, or pregnancy can all have an effect on a woman's menstrual cycle. Having a late or missed period does not always indicate pregnancy, but if you are concerned about being pregnant, it is recommended that you take a pregnancy test to confirm or disprove your suspicions. For more information on pregnancy and how it occurs, please visit our Pregnancy FAQ.



QUESTION: Can you still be pregnant if you get your period (an actual normal period, not bleeding that resembled implantation bleeding) after the last time you did something that could cause pregnancy? (December 10, 2004)

ANSWER:
Once you become pregnant, your period stops. When you become pregnant your menstrual cycle is interrupted and normal periods will stop. Some pregnant women do have bleeding or spotting during pregnancy, which can seem like a period. Additionally, some pregnant women have what's called "implantation bleeding" that can happen around the time their period is due, and they may mistake that bleeding for a period. This spotting may be cause by the fertilized egg burrowing into the blood-rich lining of the uterus, but the bleeding that occurs is typically much lighter than a period.

For more information about pregnancy, please see our Pregnancy FAQ.



QUESTION: Hi we have been trying to concieve since our ectopic back in May, 2004. My last period was 10/08/2004 and my cycle is 30-31 days long. I was supposed to start AF Nov. 8th. I took a Walgreens preg test yesterday morning and it was negative, I took another Accu clear test this afternoon after holding my pee for 4 hours and again negative. Yesterday when I was supposed to start I had bad mentrual cramps like it was coming, but then stopped and have not had cramps since, but this morning when I woke up I felt very nauseas and my temp has been up to 99 degrees the last couple of days, my breast are not swollen but are tender and that started yesterday. Could I still be pregnant and I just tested too early. How many days after missed period is the best time to test with accurate results. Also I have been charting my cervical mucus for ovulation and my most fertile day was the 26th of Oct. (November 16, 2004)

ANSWER:
A Home Pregnancy Test (HPT) can detect HCG hormone levels in your urine as early as the day your period should have started. HCG is a hormone that is produced by pregnant women. HPT can be used on the day of your missed period as well as any day after that, so if you used the HPT before your period should have started, the results may not be accurate.

Ectopic pregnancies are pregnancies in which the embryo develops outside the uterus. They are very serious, and potentially life-threatening, medical problems. They must be treated or they will cause serious complications. Since you have already had an ectopic pregnancy, it is important that you inform your doctor immediately if you are to become pregnant. Generally among women with previous ectopic pregnancies, 1 in 5 women will experience another ectopic pregnancy. The outlook for future pregnancies in depends on whether the fallopian tube appears normal or not.

If you think you may have an ectopic pregnancy, it is important that you get medical attention immediately. Signs of ectopic pregnancy may include: severe pain on one or both sides of the lower abdomen, abdominal pain and spotting, especially after a very light or missed menstrual period, as well as feeling faint or dizzy.

If you are concerned about the symptoms you are experiencing, or have more questions about pregnancy, it is recommended that you speak to your clinician.



QUESTION:
WHEN DO YOU START OVULATION AND WHEN DOES IT STOP? ARE THE CHANCES OF GETTING PREGNANT HIGH OR LOW? (November 16, 2004)

ANSWER:
For the answer to this, and other pregnancy-related questions, please see the Pregnancy FAQ.



QUESTION:
hi,i sat on my bf penis and rubbed on it while my panties were on, his glans was facing my stomach. before that he rubbed in b/w my bottucks with condom and ejaculated inside that condom. no spillage was there. After that i got my periods on near usual dates (they r very irregular). then another month later i got my second period. now from 23 days i m having continous bleeding which was first like spotting then the amount of bleeding has increased too much. i am really worried is there a chance of my being pregnant after having two normal periods befoe this? and wt can be causing this disturbance? i have this dragging pain and bloated feeling in my stomach. (November 9, 2004)

ANSWER:
If you are concerned about being pregnant, it is recommended you take a pregnancy test. For more information about pregnancy test and other pregnancy-related questions, please see our Pregnancy FAQ. Additionally, if something is abnormal for your body (i.e. bleeding for longer than usually, abnormal cramping, etc.) it is recommended you see your clinician.



QUESTION:
My period was late so I took a couple of pregnancy tests. They came out positive. That same day I started bleeding. So I went to the doctor the next day. Their test came out positive, but told me to take another test in a week because my hormone levels are still low. That was Wednesday. Lines on test took more than the three to five minutes to show up and were not dark lines. Today, Saturday I took another test while still having my period and that one came out negative. Could being on my period affected the test or do you think that the egg did not implant itself or had a false pregnancy test. I just think it is strange that I had four positive tests. Two of them after I started to bleed. (November 2, 2004)

ANSWER:
A false positive pregnancy test is when the test says that you are pregnant but actually you are not. Usually a positive pregnancy test is a fairly good indication that you are pregnant. False positive pregnancy tests are rare - though there are instances and conditions where they can occur.

There could be various reasons for a false positive test.

Chemical Pregnancy
A chemical pregnancy is basically an early miscarriage. Research has shown that half of all first pregnancies end in miscarriage. Due to the high sensitivity of home pregnancy tests, many women catch early pregnancies but end up going on to have their periods due to a chemical pregnancy.

Missed Reaction Time
For accuracy in home pregnancy tests it is essential that you read the test results in the stipulated reaction time. If you let the test sit for too long (after the instructions on the box tell you), the test is invalid. This may cause it to show false positive results.

Chemical Interference

Drugs that have the pregnancy hormone Human Chorionic Gonadotropin (hCG) in them can cause incorrect results in home pregnancy tests. The Human Chorionic Gonadotropin (hCG) in them may be responsible for the false positive pregnancy test. If you have had an HCG shot due to infertilty treatments, you need to be sure the shot is out of your system before you attempt to use early pregnancy tests.

If you are concerned about the variability in your pregnancy tests, it is recommended that you speak with your clinician.

Information from www.babyhopes.com.



QUESTION: Okay the other day I went to the hospital cause i was in serious pain and they said i had a cyst on both my ovaries and i dont start my period till the end of the month and today i had a very light bleeding down there but i shouldnt be on my period could this mean i am pregnant and is that normal because i hd sex like last week too so please help me! (October 19, 2004)

ANSWER:
Ovarian cysts are small sacs filled with fluid. They develop on a woman's ovaries. Most cysts are harmless, but some may cause problems such as bleeding and pain. If you are concerned you might be pregnant, it is recommended that you take a pregnancy test, either at home, or at your clinician's office.

Home Pregnancy Test (HPT) can detect HCG hormone levels in your urine as early as the day your period should have started. HCG is a hormone that is produced by pregnant women. HPT can be used on the day of your missed period as well as any day after that.

If you are a UIC student, you may have a pregnancy test done for free at UIC Family Medicine Clinic; for an appointment call 996.2901.



QUESTION: I'm been feeling really sick to my stomach for 4 weeks now. I am officially seven days late with my cycle yet I still feel like I'm going to have it. I have been stressing out but not that much to be that late. I am on past 35 day mark for a normal cycle, should contact my doctor or should I wait to see if my cycle will come. (October 19, 2004)

ANSWER:
If you are concerned you might be pregnant, it is recommended that you take a pregnancy test, either at home, or at your clinician's office.

Home Pregnancy Test (HPT) can detect HCG hormone levels in your urine as early as the day your period should have started. HCG is a hormone that is produced by pregnant women. HPT can be used on the day of your missed period as well as any day after that.

If you are a UIC student, you may have a pregnancy test done for free at UIC Family Medicine Clinic; for an appointment call 996.2901.



QUESTION:
I had sex on the 22nd around 2:30-3am. The condom broke and we were both worried about me getting pregnant. I knew that my period was coming within the next few days and 12 hrs later it came. I called Planned Parenthood to see if I could take the morning after pill and they told me not to take it because I had gotten my period. Does this sound at all right? I was told that I would be very fertile at that time by 1 person and everyone else I have asked tells me I should be fine. (August 24, 2004)

ANSWER:
The most fertile time of your cycle is around ovulation, which occurs around the middle day of your cycle (the first day of a cycle is the first day of a period). Therefore, hypothetically, if you are on a 28-day cycle then ovulation may occur around day 14. If you had sex just before your period then it was more than likely after ovulation, which would mean it would be less likely you would get pregnant. Usually, the most fertile time is towards the end of your period up until just after ovulation. If you're periods are irregular then the time of ovulation is very difficult to determine. Planned Parenthood is very accurate in the information they offer you.

If you have additional questions about pregnancy or emergency contraception please check out the FAQ's on our web site or check plannedparenthood.org.



QUESTION:
i ave had my period every month thus far. i am 28 years old. i missed it for this month.last month i had my period on 18th. usually it will come on the same date. today it is 21st. I did pregnancy test, but it is negative. I have back pain also.is that an indication for the period? (August 24, 2004)

ANSWER:
Back pain can be indicative that your period might be approaching, but every woman has different physical changes that can signal that her period is approaching; one woman may have back pain at the start of her period, while another might not ever have back pain associated with her menstural cycle.

If you are concerned that you might be pregnant, it is recommended that you take a pregnancy test. When using home pregnancy tests it is important to follow the directions exactly as they appear on the insert. If the directions are not followed the results may be altered.

If you are a student at UIC you can receive a pregnancy test for free at the UIC Family Medicine Center on the west side of campus. To schedule an appointment you can call 996.2901. Other locations to get a pregnancy test in Chicagoland include Planned Parenthood locations. To find the nearest Planned Parenthood location please visit plannedparenthood.org and type in your zip code to find a health center near you.



QUESTION:
Me and my boyfriend have had sex and I'm afraid i might be pregnant. My period is late and I have been urinating a lot, I feel queezy, and am bloated. I was wondering if having sex can cause your period to come late without being pregnant? (August 3, 2004)

ANSWER:
There could be many reasons why a period may be late without being pregnant including excessive exercise, illness, stress, etc. If you feel you may be pregnant it would be recommended you take a pregnancy test to find out for sure.



QUESTION:
My boyfriend and I have been having sex since May 24. However I finished my period on May 20. My periods are never on time and I still haven't had it yet. My breast are tender but I have taken three pregnancy test and they all said that i wasn't pregnant. It is not the first time i have been two months late. Is there a serious problem i need to check out? (July 27, 2004)

ANSWER:
There is always a chance that you may be pregnant if you didn't use protection (like a condom and/or an oral contraceptive).

An Early Pregnancy Test (EPT) or Home Pregnancy Test (HPT) can detect HCG hormone levels in your urine as early as the day your period should have started. HCG is a hormone that is produced by pregnant women. EPT/HPT can be used on the day of your missed period as well as any day after that, since you have reported that you do not have regular cycles, it would be difficult for you to determine when that day is, but if you used the EPT/HPT before your period should have started, the results may not be accurate.

Keep in mind that there are other reasons besides pregnancy that could cause your period to be late; exercise, stress, weight loss or gain, and/or changes in your diet could all be reasons that your period might be late.

If you are still concerned about being pregnant, you may want to repeat the home pregnancy test (if you took it too soon) or see your clinician to confirm or disprove the possibility of pregnancy.



QUESTION:
I had my period on June 25 and it lasted until the 30th. I had sore breasts for about a week before that and they are still sore. Is it possible I may be pregnant? (July 13, 2004)

ANSWER:
Please see the "Pregnancy FAQ."



QUESTION:
I had stopped my period 2 days before I had sex and the condom broke before me and my boyfriend noticed he had cummed inside. Within 12 hrs. I took the first dose of Plan B of the morning after pill a week later I bleed for 3 days but nothing since and that has been close to two months i have experienced pain lately in my lower abdomen and light spotting i have also been stressed out. But is there a chance this is a sign i am pregnant? (June 23, 2004)

ANSWER:
Even if emergency contraception (EC) is taken, it is not 100% effective at preventing pregnancy. With any hormonal prescription there are side effects, some side effects for EC include your next period being earlier or later and your flow may be lighter, heavier, or more spotty than normal. Planned Parenthood recommends women see a clinician if they do not have a period within 3 weeks or if they have symptoms of pregnancy. It is also recommended couples use another contraceptive method any time prior to your next period as EC only reduces the chances of pregnancy from one encounter.

If you're having severe pain in one or both sides of the lower abdomen, abdominal pain and spotting (after a very light or missed menstrual period), and/or feeling faint or dizzy it is recommended you see you clinician as soon as possible.

For other frequently asked questions about ECPs please see our ECP FAQ link.



QUESTION:
WHY AM I SPOTTING A WEEK BEFORE MY PERIOD IS SUPPOSED TO START? COULD I BE PREGNANT? ME AND MY BOYFRIEND USE CONDOMS EVERYTIME AND IM ON THE BIRTH CONTROL PILL. (May 27, 2004)

ANSWER:
Spotting between periods can be a side effect for most birth control methods, including the pill, especially if you recently started taking them. But, if the spotting continues or worsens it would be recommended you see your clinician as there may be a better birth control option for you.



QUESTION:
I got my period 3 times last month (April) its almost the end of May and i haven't gotten another period, inbetween the three periods i have had fooled around with my boyfriend but he never finsished inside me. I took a Home Preg Test and it was neg. Is it possible that i had 3 periods last month and am missing this one.. or could i be preg? (May 25, 2004)

ANSWER:
There are a few things that need to be addressed from your question.

First, there is no way for us to know if you are pregnant or not, but if it's normal for you to have irregular periods then there is probably nothing to worry about. If this is not normal for you then there could be a few reasons why you had multiple periods in one month; one reason being, if you recently started any medication, particularly birth control. Most birth control methods (Depo, patch, ring, the pill, and the IUD) and emergency contraception have a potential side effect of spotting between periods, therefore if you just started taking a birth control method or recently took emergency contraception then this may be the cause of the spotting. To explain not having a period this month, some methods (depo is one example) women cease to have a period after one or more months of taking the method. Therefore, it is possible to have spotting during the month and not to have a period the next month if you are usually irregular like this, if you have recently started using a hormonal birth control method, or if you recently took emergency contraception.

Second, you mentioned in your question that you and your partner fooled around "but he never finished inside" of you. If his penis was in or around your vaginal area at any time during erection then there is a chance that he pre-cummed (fluid released prior to ejaculation) in or around your vaginal area, which can impregnate a woman. Now, this isn't saying you are or are not pregnant as we cannot determine that via internet. Becoming pregnant still depends on ovulation (release of an egg from the ovaries into the fallopian tubes) and since it would be very difficult to determine when you were ovulating then the only way to know if you are pregnant or not is to take a pregnancy test. But, if you are not using a birth control method, you and your partner are fooling around and there is a potential that pregnancy could occur (or transmission of sexually transmitted infections [STI's] could occur if this isn't a monogamous relationship) from this fooling around then it would be recommended to use protection, whether it be a condom (reduces the chance of pregnancy and transmission of some STI's) or a prescription birth control method (reduces the chance of pregnancy only), consistently and correctly each and every time.

Third, you also mention that you did take a home pregnancy test (HPT) and it came out negative. One thing about HPT's is that most brands have to be used the day of a missed period and since, it seems by your question, there is no way to determine when your next period is supposed to begin then the HPT may have been taken too early. Therefore, if you are still worried about pregnancy then it would be recommended you wait a few days and take the HPT again, following the directions. If you're periods are irregular and/or you feel you may be pregnant, it would be recommended you see you clinician.

If you have more questions about pregnancy please visit the "Pregnancy FAQ."



QUESTION:
I was on Depo-Provera for about 4yrs. I've been off it now for about 15 months, my periods are very sparadical and my husband and I are trying to get pregnant. How long should it take to 1- get my periods back to normal? 2- to conceive? (May 20, 2004)

ANSWER:
Taking any hormonal birth control method has side effects, but they vary from person to person. This is also true for cycles to become normal once the method is stopped as the time frame varies from person to person. After stopping the use of Depo it takes some women 12 months and others up to 18 months for their cycle to normalize, which means conceiving may take this long as well.

When trying to conceive it is important to understand the cycle and when the most opportune times to try are. Hypothetically, if a woman is on a 28-day cycle then ovulation (release of an egg into the fallopian tubes) would occur on or around day 14 (day 1 is the first day of menstruation/period). Since the sperm can live inside the woman's body for 5-7 days and the egg begins to break down after 24 hours, then days 7-15 during the cycle would be the most fertile days. This is a hypothetical situation as some women may not know when ovulation occurs and if varies if periods are sporadic, irregular, or if cycles vary in length. If you'd like to chart/predict your fertility pattern please visit Planned Parenthood to find out more information on ways to do this.

If you and your partner continue to have difficulties conceiving it would be recommended you talk with you clinician for further options.



QUESTION:
My boyfriend and I were making out without our pants on. We both had on underwear and he took his penis out of his underwear for a second, but i made him put it back in. This was the last day of my period and i still had my tampon in. I took the morning after pill within 72 hours of that just to be on the safe side. We did not have sex, but i was wondering the possibility of me being pregnant. (April 22, 2004)

ANSWER:
There is really no possible way you could have gotten pregnant with the information you have given, unless he put his penis in to or around your vagina or had been masturbating and immediately fingered you with semen on his fingers.

For more questions on pregnancy, please read the "Pregnancy FAQ," which talks about how a woman could get pregnant.



QUESTION:
hi, i was wondering if you can help me. i had a baby nearly 7 months ago and i am still breast feeding and really enjoy it but i am a bit concerned that i still haven't had a period since i conceived, and i still get the symptoms now and again of one, the bloating, mood swings, acne etc is this normal and when should they start again? thanks (April 1, 2004)

ANSWER:
Breast feeding a baby, also known as Lactational Amenorrhea Method (LAM), can postpone a woman's ovulation (release of an egg from the ovaries to the fallopian tubes) for a period of time; usually up to 6 months. Not having a period during breast-feeding can be normal if you have been doing the following (according to Planned Parenthood):

  • breast-feeding your baby at least 6 times a day on both breasts

  • breast-feeding your baby at least every 4 hours during the day

  • breast-feeding your baby at least every 6 hours throughout the night

  • do not substitute other foods for a breast-milk meal


  • If you have not been doing the above, it would be recommended you visit your doctor and discuss your concerns.



    QUESTION:
    I was prescribed the birth control pill Aleese and due to the side effects i quit taking them four days after i began the pack as a Sunday starter. My husband and I continually have un- protected sex. My last period was March 4 I began the pills on the 7th and the last pill I took was on the 11th. However, on the 15th of March i began bleeding for about three days which gradually turned in to spotting for a day or two. The bleeding was not like a normal period (not heavy like usual). According to my last period i am to start again today which i have not. They come every 28 days. So my question is the bleeding that i experienced on the 15th would that be considered my period or was that just from quitting the pill and for two could i be pregnant. Also, would 4 days of being on the pill effect my menstrual cycle and now everything has to get back on track.(April 1, 2004)

    ANSWER:
    There is no way for us to know if you are pregnant or not - no matter how much information you give us; however, we can address some of the other concerns you mentioned. Some women may notice minor changes when starting the pill. These changes are usually greatly improved or go away completely after the first 2 to 3 months.

    Possible changes may include:
  • Breast tenderness or fullness

  • Nausea

  • Spotting (breakthrough bleeding)

  • Variation in your periods (may be lighter/heavier or shorter/longer

  • Weight gain/fluid retention

  • Acne

  • Mood changes


  • It is not recommended that you stop taking birth control pills without consulting your clinician. S/he might be able to recommend a different form of birth control pills if you are not satisfied with your current pills. If you think you might be pregnant, it is recommended that you see your clinician.



    QUESTION:
    i am 19 have regular 28-30 day cycles which can be painful but i am taking tablets for the pain. i have also been trying to conceive without luck. i have heard about endometriosis and was wondering what are the chances of someone in my situation having endometriosis who usually has endometriosis and what are the symptoms? (April 1, 2004)

    ANSWER:
    Endometriosis occurs when tissue like that which lines the uterus (tissue called the endometrium) is found outside the uterus -- usually in the abdomen on the ovaries, fallopian tubes; the outer surface of the uterus, bladder, bowel, vagina, cervix, and vulva, among other places.

    This misplaced tissue develops into growths or lesions, which respond to the menstrual cycle in the same way that the tissue of the uterine lining does: each month the tissue builds up, breaks down, and sheds.

    The difference between the tissue and blood found in the uterus and found outside the uterus is this: blood and tissue found in the uterus flows out of the body through the vagina, but the blood and tissue shed from endometrial growths has no way of leaving the body. This results in internal bleeding, breakdown of the blood and tissue from the lesions, and inflammation -- and can cause pain, infertility, scar tissue formation, adhesions, and bowel problems.

    Symptoms of endometriosis include:
  • Pain before and during periods

  • Pain with sex

  • Infertility

  • Fatigue

  • Painful urination during periods

  • Painful bowel movements during periods

  • Other Gastrointestinal upsets such as diarrhea, constipation, and nausea.


  • Endometriosis is one cause of female infertility. Infertility may occur because the blood that is shed from the endometrial tissue in the abdominal cavity has no way of leaving the body; this results in pools of blood within the abdominal cavity, causing an inflammation that forms scar tissue. This scar tissue can block the fallopian tubes or interfere with ovulation. If you are concerned that you may be suffering from endometriosis, it is recommended that you see you clinician.



    QUESTION:
    i know that you can still receive your period the first month of pregnancy. i take the April 28 day cycle birth control pills. my cycle is always the last thursday sometimes friday of my last row of pills. my concern is that i got my period a week early this month. is this something to be concerned about? (March 19, 2004)

    ANSWER: If something occurs (or doesn't occur) that is abnormal for you or your body, it would be recommended you see your clinician to discuss the situation.



    QUESTION:
    My girlfriend is pregnant, well she went to see a specialist about some hormone problem and they told her that she could be further along than she is by maybe 2 months. At her first Dr's apt we were told that she was 15 weeks and 2 days. How does a hormone affect the baby's due date? We were together when she had her last menstrual cycle in september, i thought that you could not have one if you were pregnant. She never had one after that. (March 5, 2004)

    ANSWER: Some women can experience "spotting" while they are pregnant. It is not unusual to have some bleeding during the first trimester of a pregnancy and this could be what she was experiencing the first couple months.

    Talking with OB/GYN and discussing any additional tests she may need/want done can help clear up any questions you may be having at this point about how far she is in her pregnancy. Depending on what health insurance she has, these tests may be covered, but is recommended to contact her insurance company with any questions on coverage.

    Again, it is best to talk with her OB/GYN about any pre-natal care and tests she should have done throughout the pregnancy.



    QUESTION:
    i have always had irregular cycles. i had been on birth control for about three years and that did not help to get my cycles on track. it has been 1yr since i have been off of the bc, and for the last 4 months i have not had a period. i have been to the gyn and they insist there is nothing wrong. i have taken numerous pregnancy tests, and they are all negative. my fiance and i would love to have a baby, but i have no insurance. i don't know what to do or where to go. please help. (February 26, 2004)

    ANSWER: There could be many reasons you could be missing your periods including stress, hormone imbalances, excessive exercising, among others. You have the option of getting a second opinion by seeing another clinician, but it may be difficult if you are uninsured. There may be Planned Parenthood locations in your area to go and the best way to find one is by doing a search on their web site at www.plannedparenthood.org. You would want to type your zip code in to find a clinic near you. Some Planned Parenthoods, at least here in Chicago, are on a sliding scale, which means it would depend on how much you make as to how much you pay so you would pay at the time of your visit.

    If your fiance has insurance, it may be an option to wait until you are married so you would be insured and would have more access to specialized care.



    QUESTION: I gave birth via cesarean on 12-Nov-03, and now fully recovered. But I have not had my period since then. Normally, I experienced my period every month. (February 26, 2004)

    ANSWER:
    Sometimes it may take a little while for a woman's cycle to get back on track after giving birth and it also depends on if you are breast feeding/pumping as most women who breast feed/pump will not have a period during this time. If you are worried about not having a period it is recommended you schedule an appointment with your clinician to discuss your concerns.



    QUESTION: me and my boyfriend haven't had sex for about 2 months and i have had a period since the. we have touched each over though he has fingered me plenty of times but i have not come on my period i am now a week late. i have done a clear blue pregnancy test and it said i wasn't pregnant but i till haven't come o my period what do i do please help? (February 12, 2004)

    ANSWER:
    If there was no exchange of his semen to your vaginal area then it is highly unlikely that you could be pregnant unless it was from another sexual experience. Your period may be late for many reasons including current irregularity, significant decrease in weight, significant increase in exercise, stress, among many other factors.

    If you are worried about being pregnant from a previous encounter you are able
    to get a free pregnancy test done at the UIC Family Medicine Clinic if you are
    a UIC student. To schedule an appointment call 996.2901. You can also have a
    pregnancy test done at your primary care physicians office or any Planned
    Parenthood locations. Check out our web site at
    http://www.uic.edu/depts/wellctr/stihivandpregnancy.html to find
    where one is located near you.



    QUESTION: is it possible to get pregnant without having sex? for example my bf ejaculated (next to me) and he wiped himself off with his hand and then dried off/ wiped his hand off on a different article of clothing and then proceeded to touch my clitoral area. is it possible that i can get pregnant like that even though i've never had sex before? (January 28, 2004)

    ANSWER:
    Pregnancy depends on when you ovulate, but it can happen if any semen gets in or around the vaginal opening. If your partner wiped off his hand before he touched you, it is unlikely that you would get pregnant. Pregnancy would be more likely to occur if there was semen on his hand and he put his fingers inside of you, immediately after ejaculating.



    QUESTION:
    i was wondering is there a chance that i could be normal with my ovulation is there something to regulate my ovulation like something that i could take so i could become pregnant i have a almost 5yr. old son and i want to become pregnant but i don't ovulate i was taking clomid for 5 months but i still don't come out pregnant i don't now what to do can somebody help me and tell me if there's something i can do or drink like vitamins or something please help me!!!!!!!!!thank you!!!! (January 21, 2004)

    ANSWER:
    Clomid is used to induce ovulation, to correct irregular ovulation, and to help increase egg production. Generally, research shows that if the drug doesn't work in four to six cycles, it isn't likely to work at all.

    As far as eating or drinking something to help induce ovulation: there is no known food or vitamin that directly affects ovulation. Remember that a balanced diet is especially important if you are trying to prepare your body
    for pregnancy.

    If you have further questions about eating right before or during pregnancy and are a UIC student or staff member, feel free to call the Wellness Center at 312-413-2120 to make an appointment with our nutritionist.

    If you are concerned about your cycle and your chances of getting pregnant, contact your clinician; he or she might be able to give you more specific information about your options while you are trying to conceive.



    QUESTION:
    I've been taking birth control pills since May of 2003 through October 2003. I've always had a regular menstrual even after I got on the birth controls. In the month of October I had my period for 3 days 3 times in that month. Then in November I did not get my period at all. In December I got it for 3 days and right now I am on my period. Yes, I've always had unprotected sex with my partner the whole time we've been together. Now can I still be pregnant even though I am having these irregular mestruals?? (January 9, 2004)

    ANSWER:
    There could be many reasons your cycle has changed including, but not limited to, significant increase in exercise or decrease in weight, stress, and change in birth control methods.

    There is still a chance a woman can get pregnant if she is sexually active. Using a birth control method decreases the chance of an unwanted pregnancy. If methods are combined (i.e. birth control pills and condoms) the chances are even smaller if used correctly and consistently.

    But, no matter what, if you're cycle is irregular for you (as you know your body the best) it is recommended you see a clinician to discuss the situation.



    QUESTION: I was at a party one night and ended up going back to some guys room. I do not really remember what happened, but i do not think that i had sex with him. I am pretty sure that when i woke up i was clothed. This happened 2 days after i finished my last period. Anyway, i am a week late on my period, i am very regular normally (28-30 days). For about a week my body has been feeling as if i should be on my period (slight cramping, and queasiness in my lower abdomen), but i have not gotten my period (only light colored discharge as if i were ovulating, but sometimes it is slightly brownish). Could this be a sign of pregnancy and could i be pregnant? (December 16, 2003)

    ANSWER:
    There are many signs of pregnancy and there are many reasons why a woman's period could be late (stress, drastic change in nutritional habits, excessive exercise, drastic decrease in weight, etc.). The most important is to know your body and if something is not normal for you then to see your clinician.

    If you feel you could be pregnant it is recommended you see a clinician.



    QUESTION: CAN I GET PREGNANT IF I HAVE 24 CYCLE? (November 21, 2003)

    ANSWER: The question is very vague, but the interpretation is if you can get pregnant if you have a 24-day cycle. The answer is yes. It doesn't matter what the length of your cycle is, it depends if you ovulate (release of an egg from the ovaries into the fallopian tubes) and when you ovulate.



    QUESTION: I have been done with my period for about a week, and my husband and I have had sex a few times since then and this morning when I went to the bathroom there was some blood, just lightly. I read on you website that spotting is a sign of pregnancy do you think I could be? (October 27, 2003)

    ANSWER: Spotting is a little bit of bleeding that happens at a time other than during
    a menstrual period. A woman who experiences this will sometimes notice a
    couple drops of blood in her underwear when she was not expecting her period.

    Some women experience "spotting" while they are pregnant. It is not unusual to
    have some bleeding during the first trimester of a pregnancy. Occasionally,
    some women "spot" throughout a pregnancy.

    As far as if you are pregnant or not, it depends on your menstrual cycle. If
    you are concerned about being pregnant, it would be best to speak with you
    clinician, to either confirm or disprove your suspicions.

    Spotting from your vagina after having vaginal intercourse can be a normal
    occurrence for some women. However, if it is unusual for you, it would be best
    to see your clinician.



    QUESTION:
    I had sex with my boyfriend 3 weeks before my period was due. I'm 3 days late. took a hpt was neg. Was it to soon? I'm very regular. (October 27, 2003)

    ANSWER:There are many reasons, besides pregnancy, that could cause your period to be late; exercise, stress, weight loss or gain, and/or changes in your diet could all be reasons that your period might be late.

    Most women on regular cycles ovulate (egg is released from the ovaries into the fallopian tubes) about halfway through your cycle (remember: the first day of your cycle is the first day of your period). Therefore, if you have unprotected sex and/or your usual protection fails about 5-7 days prior to ovulation then there is an increased chance of pregnancy as sperm can survive in a woman's body for up to 5, sometimes, 7 days.

    Some Early Pregnancy Test (EPT) or Home Pregnancy Test (HPT) can detect hCG (Human Chorionic Gonadotropin) hormone levels in your urine as early as a few days before your period should start, others detect hCG beginning the day your period is supposed to start. hCG is a hormone that is produced by pregnant women. If you are using an EPT/HPT it is very important to read and follow the directions. Each test can differ depending on the brand so the time frame as to when you should test yourself could be different, which could influence the accuracy of the test.

    If you took an EPT/HPT and it came out negative, it is recommended you retest a few days later (again following the directions). If it comes out negative, more than likely you are not pregnant, but if it comes out positive it is recommended you see a clinician.



    QUESTION:
    My bf and I were in the pool making out and I was sitting on his lap. I had my swim bottoms on and he had his trunks on, with boxers underneath, so there was no skin to skin contact. We were rubbing up against each other and he ejaculated. Is there any way i could be pregnant? It’s only been a few days and I have this feeling in my tummy that won't go away. I’m so scared. (September 10, 2003)

    ANSWER:
    If it played out the way you said, there is the slimmest of slim chances you could be pregnant, as the sperm would have to get through his trunks and boxers as well as your swim bottoms to reach your vagina. The feeling in your tummy could be nervousness, anxiety, etc., but if you wish to ease your mind more you could see your clinician to have a pregnancy test done. If you are worried a great deal you could see about getting emergency contraception which can be taken within 72 hours after intercourse (it has also been shown to be somewhat effective for up to 5 days after sex).



    QUESTION: I am 18 and have missed a period. I am a lesbian and have never had sex with a man so what are the possible explanations?

    ANSWER: There could be many reasons why you have missed your period including, but not limited to, the following:

    Nutrition - a change in nutritional habits
    Weight loss - a severe decrease in weight or your body mass index (BMI)
    Exercise - beginning an exercise program or increasing your previous program
    Stress - an increase in your stress level (college, family, friends, relationships, etc.)
    These are just a few reasons why a woman may be late or miss a period. If you continue to be concerned, please see your clinician.



    QUESTION: I just finished my period 2 days ago and I had unprotected sex and the boy nutted in me, do I have a greater risk or becoming pregnant before or after my period?

    ANSWER: There is still a chance of being pregnant by having sex before or after your period, but it is very dependent on when you ovulate and if you have a regular period. It is best to have a pregnancy test if you are uneasy about the situation.


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